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Sarah V

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DeVon Price: Unmasking Autism (2022, Potter/Ten Speed/Harmony/Rodale) 5 stars

Review of 'Unmasking Autism' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

A non pathologizing first person account of the experience of an autistic person identifying their autism, the mask of neurotypical behavior they were forced to wear, and the wonderful person they blossomed into when they began to leave that mask behind. Supported by life experiences of other autistics, centering the experiences of intersectional autistics like those who are Black and brown, Deaf and Blind, transgender and more. Filled with hundreds of citations to autistic authors and scientific research. I found this book immensely helpful and an autistic person trying to unmask, and have ordered a copy for my therapist.

Eva A. Mendes: Marriage and lasting relationships with Asperger's syndrome (autism spectrum disorder) (2015) 2 stars

Review of "Marriage and lasting relationships with Asperger's syndrome (autism spectrum disorder)" on 'Goodreads'

2 stars

Better than other books I've read on this subject but that's not saying much. I am autistic and in a relationship with a neurotypical person. The intro to this book gave me hope, talking about ASD as autism spectrum differences. Unfortunately, though less so than other books, this one still has a lot of ableism and pathologizing in it. From apologizing without understanding what's wrong to talking to a doctor for medication to correct a low libido "problem" I found a significant portion of this book problematic. Perhaps best summarized with the quote "The truth is her partner with ASD can't just make changes by deciding to do so. Each day he has to work against his natural impulses, whilst exercising patience with his partner." Striving to deny my natural way of being in favor of performing neurotypicality is the essence of masking, and that's harmful in general and toxic …

Ruthanna Emrys: Half-Built Garden (2022, Doherty Associates, LLC, Tom, Tordotcom) 5 stars

On a warm March night in 2083, Judy Wallach-Stevens wakes to a warning of unknown …

Review of 'Half-Built Garden' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

I don't re-read books very often, and usually with a long time in between. I'm going to make an exception for A Half-Built Garden; I'll probably read it again this year, which for me is saying something. Definitely Solarpunk and massively delightful, certainly one of my top 5 favorite books. Highly recommend.