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Sarah V

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Eva A. Mendes: Marriage and lasting relationships with Asperger's syndrome (autism spectrum disorder) (2015) 2 stars

Review of "Marriage and lasting relationships with Asperger's syndrome (autism spectrum disorder)" on 'Goodreads'

2 stars

Better than other books I've read on this subject but that's not saying much. I am autistic and in a relationship with a neurotypical person. The intro to this book gave me hope, talking about ASD as autism spectrum differences. Unfortunately, though less so than other books, this one still has a lot of ableism and pathologizing in it. From apologizing without understanding what's wrong to talking to a doctor for medication to correct a low libido "problem" I found a significant portion of this book problematic. Perhaps best summarized with the quote "The truth is her partner with ASD can't just make changes by deciding to do so. Each day he has to work against his natural impulses, whilst exercising patience with his partner." Striving to deny my natural way of being in favor of performing neurotypicality is the essence of masking, and that's harmful in general and toxic …

Ruthanna Emrys: Half-Built Garden (2022, Doherty Associates, LLC, Tom, Tordotcom) 5 stars

On a warm March night in 2083, Judy Wallach-Stevens wakes to a warning of unknown …

Review of 'Half-Built Garden' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

I don't re-read books very often, and usually with a long time in between. I'm going to make an exception for A Half-Built Garden; I'll probably read it again this year, which for me is saying something. Definitely Solarpunk and massively delightful, certainly one of my top 5 favorite books. Highly recommend.

Cory Doctorow: Walkaway (2017, Head of Zeus) 5 stars

Hubert Vernon Rudolph Clayton Irving Wilson Alva Anton Jeff Harley Timothy Curtis Cleveland Cecil Ollie …

Review of 'Walkaway' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

So much future-speculative fiction introduces an interesting idea, discusses it a little bit, and then that's it. But Walkaway introduces idea after idea, and doesn't just discuss it but follows through on the positive and negative outcomes, and how they give rise to the next idea. I thoroughly enjoyed this fraught but optimistic take on what our unfolding journey to the near future might look like. I hope Doctorow is at least partially right, because it sounds like a future I'd want to live in. It sounds like a future I want to help build.

Mason Deaver: I Wish You All the Best (Hardcover, 2019, Push) 4 stars

When Ben De Backer comes out to their parents as nonbinary, they're thrown out of …

Review of 'I Wish You All the Best' on 'Goodreads'

4 stars

Ben is non-binary. 10 years after their sister left home without a word, they come out to their parents as a high school senior. They kick them out, and the sister they haven't spoken to in a decade takes them in, gets them enrolled in the high school her husband teaches at and is generally a good sister. One of Ben's classmates is Nathan, and the two become closer while Ben is figuring out their new life, but Ben is back in the closet from everyone except their sister, and they are afraid to share who they are with Nathan even as they both begin developing feelings for each other. The asshole parents make a reappearance. Ben eventually comes out to their friends at school. The part about Nate's sexuality in relation to a non-binary partner is kinda glossed over but the ending is generally happy.

Shelley Pearsall: Things Seen from Above (2020, Alfred A. Knopf Books for Young Readers, Knopf Books for Young Readers) 2 stars

Review of 'Things Seen from Above' on 'Goodreads'

2 stars

Interesting story, but a lot of autism tropes here like the neurotypical person trying to figure out the "puzzle" of the autistic person and explaining social norms to them, and the autistic person being a savant. Little nuance. Even acknowledging it's aimed at younger readers it was still a bit disappointing.